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Counseling for Emerging Adults + College Students
Up until now, you’ve likely been dependent on your family’s support. When you begin college, however, it marks the start of your transition to independence. It’s often said to be your first taste of the “real world,” an introduction to the world of adulthood. Attending college in NYC can be an exciting prospect. You’d have the nation’s largest and busiest city laid out at your feet, serving as the backdrop for “the best four years of your life.”
The college experience is often glorified but reality rarely follows that rosy outlook — between the heavy academic load, the social pressure, the packed schedule, the burden of student loan debt, and a bleak future characterized by job insecurity and economic difficulties, many college students and emerging adults find themselves at wits’ end before those four years are up.
These challenges are difficult enough to deal with as is, but they’re often magnified by the inevitable growing pains as you learn to stand on your own. It’s up to you, and only you, to figure it all out.
Everything from small decisions like what to eat for lunch to serious decisions like signing up for a student loan will depend on your say. It’s also up to you to confront situations that you might not have experienced before, be it doing your own laundry or standing up to a professor for an incorrectly-calculated grade.
At times, you might find yourself surprised in both good and bad ways. You might uncover strengths you never knew you had — or you might find that you’re having more trouble with adjusting to college life than you expected. College may be full of opportunities for growth and self-discovery, but it’s rarely stress-free. The mental health of students across the country has been in consistent decline for years.
Between 2013 and 2021, there has been a 135% increase in depression and 110% increase in anxiety among college students, as well as a nearly 50% increase in the number of students who meet the criteria for one or more mental health problems. You’re not alone in your struggle. Your curriculum may not include a course on navigating life as a college student, but that doesn’t mean you can’t reach out for help from other sources.
What Challenges Do Emerging Adults and College Students Face?
College is often the perfect recipe for making students feel overwhelmed with their responsibilities and the expectations pinned upon them, whether by themselves or others. Some of the most common challenges faced by students are:
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Making major decisions — Many say that the decisions you make in college will greatly affect the trajectory of your life, such as your major determining your career after graduation. These decisions can be frightening to commit to.
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Interpersonal relationships — College puts you face to face with a wide range of people. It can be intimidating to make new friends and cultivate new relationships. It can also be difficult to maintain relationships you had before (e.g. keeping in touch with family).
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Lack of academic support — Feeling like your professors are unreasonable with their requirements and not being able to seek help (e.g. professor unreachable for consultations, no tutoring services, etc.) can hinder your academic progress.
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Discovering sexuality — College is often the first environment where you’ll see more openness towards the topic of sex, which can prompt a journey to figuring out your identity. Some may be having their first serious relationship. Or it is their first time being sexually active and facing concerns of STDs.
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LGBTQIA+ student experience — Many LGBTQIA+ students find newfound freedom in college, allowing them to experience their first time “coming out,” first time meeting LGBTQIA+ adult role models, first time being exposed to sexual orientation and gender identity issues in curriculum, first opportunity to change their gender expression, or first time expressing “real” feelings and having “real” friends. These firsts can come with new fears and anxieties, such as an increased risk of being discriminated against for their identity.
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Adjusting to a new place — NYC is known as “The City That Never Sleeps” for a reason. If you’re from outside the city, it can be hard to adjust to the fast pace. Even if you’re from the city, moving into a dorm or other shared student accommodation can be a big change. You might find it hard to get along with your roommate and live without the amenities you had before.
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Assimilation and acculturation — Students who are first-generation Americans or immigrants might have trouble adjusting to a new culture and language. Undocumented students, in particular, face anxiety over their legal status and economic hardship. They might also face concerns of discrimination. If English isn’t their first language, they might lag behind in schoolwork, leading to insecurities and self-doubt. Intergenerational conflict can also arise between students and parents if they adjust faster than their parents to the new culture. They can become burdened with constantly having to translate for their parents.
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Developing organizational skills — Juggling classes, extracurricular duties, a social life, and possibly a part-time job is no mean feat. You might struggle with carving out time for everything on your plate.
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Doubt about academic fitness — If you’re unhappy with the way your college life is going, it’s natural to have doubts. You might wonder if you picked the right major or the right college and start double-thinking your past decisions.
Understandably, this isn’t an exhaustive list. The situations that can cause you mental distress are numerous. When it comes to reaching your tipping point, here are some signs you need to look out for:
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Anxiety
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Depression
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Being unable to enjoy the activities you did before
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Being irritated and angry more often
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Feeling isolated from the people around you
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Being constantly fatigued and exhausted
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Difficulty focusing
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Changes in your sleeping schedule (sleeping too little or too much)
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Changes in your appetite
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Substance abuse
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Unexplained aches and pains
Some of these may come and go, but if you find that they’re significantly disrupting your daily life and affecting your ability to perform well in school, you may want to consider seeking professional help.
Personalized Approach
Our therapy sessions are customized to meet the unique needs of each client.
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Work with licensed professionals who specialize in young adult mental health.
Flexible Scheduling
We offer convenient appointment times to fit your busy lifestyle.
Common Questions About Our Services
At Sandy Shores Counseling, we understand that you may have questions about starting therapy. Here are some answers to help you feel more informed and comfortable.
What should I expect during my first session?
During your first session, your therapist will get to know you and discuss your goals for therapy. It’s an opportunity to ask questions and establish a comfortable environment for your sessions.
How often should I attend therapy sessions?
The frequency of sessions depends on your individual needs and goals. Typically, clients start with weekly sessions and adjust as needed over time.
Is therapy confidential?
Yes, therapy sessions at Sandy Shores Counseling are confidential. We adhere to strict privacy policies to ensure your information is protected.
Can therapy help with academic stress?
Absolutely. Our therapists are experienced in helping students manage academic stress, improve study habits, and develop coping strategies.
What if I don't feel comfortable with my therapist?
It’s important to feel comfortable with your therapist. If you don’t feel it’s a good fit, we encourage you to discuss your concerns so we can find a better match for you.
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